New MySpace Regulations = (Faux) Internet Safety

I consider myself an internet person. I work for a website. I have more than one social networking profile. I use google as a verb. And yet I am still unnerved when I peruse my younger relatives' profiles. I am amazed at how scandalously they portray themselves and at how many personal details they reveal. They still roll their eyes when I preach about the danger of being online.

Next week, MySpace will enact new safety regulations designed to protect underage users from predators:
  • Anyone under the age of 14 will not be allowed to create a profile
  • The profiles of 14 and 15 year olds will default to private, meaning anyone over the age of 18 must know the user's first and last name or their e-mail address to make contact. Previously any stranger could reach out to any teen on MySpace.
  • All users will be able to make their profile private or choose only to have partial profiles viewed by strangers.
And while this is a step in the right direction, it's not enough. Most other social networking sites have similar regulations already, and users still lie about their age, both to gain access to a site and in their actual profile. Plus, any regulations that a networking site implements could easily be defeated by the next tech genius that comes along.

So in the end, it comes down to people like you and me, who are willing to keep having that difficult conversation about cyber-safety.

To help get the conversation started, try these two quizzes:

Have you talked to your kid about internet saftey?

  • We talked, and I saw his social networking profile.
  • We talked, but I haven't seen her profile.
  • We haven't talked, and I know he has a profile
  • We haven't talked, and I don't think she has a profile.
Vote Results
Do you think these new regulations will work? Who is ultimately responsible for internet safety, parents or the social networks? What tips or suggestions do you have for other moms?

--Allison Busacca, Assistant Producer, Pregnancy and Parenting

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3 Comments

Dara said:

I don't think it is enough. About 2 years ago when my daughter was only 11 we found out she had a myspace profile against family rules so she could chat with her school friends that had them as well. All of her friends are her age. We dealt severely with her betrayal (she still does not have a bedroom door) and are more diligent about monitor her computer behaviors. I called all of the parents on her friends list and about half did not know about their kids profile, about 1/4 of the other half did but had never seen it. But it was simply as easy as these kids marking the check box stating they are 14 (or older) to get a profile. At least with Yahoo they require the parents email address and use credit card verification for minors setting up messenger and mail accounts. I know ultimately it is the parents responsibility for knowing what their child is doing at all times and for keeping them out of danger but we as a society have said before companies do have a social responsibility. We don't allow billboards for cigarettes anymore because of their potential influence on children, what is wrong with asking online companies to do a little more to help keep our children safer?

rosanna wiseman said:

i am 56 and have a myspace and i have had guys to leave me nasty comments and i have private settings.they can hack their way in some how.i have mine just for family and it is fun. but these young kids dont.my grand son now has his on private and i cant check up on him to see who his freinds are.so how can we monitor them when it is private and wont tell you their password.so what do we do??

kathy said:

how can i view what my daughter is saying & what others are saying?

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