Parents are all crazy
I have a 6 year old son who is on a travel hockey team. (yes, travel ice hockey - i do realize this is ridiculous) Anyhow, this time of year they have try-outs for next season. The hockey career of our son is basically my husbands responsibility. The 3 times a week practices and the one game a week or weekend tournaments are all his work. Of course my 3 year old daughter and I go to the tournaments and some games, but the drudgery of the practices - changing in and out of the equipment etc, are all his deal.Anyhow, tonight we go to the try-outs. It's a 3 night long event and this was the 3rd night. There are approximately 40 kids trying out for 3 teams. Mostly all the children make a team, it simply depends on whether it's an A-B-or C team.
So I'm in the stands watching my son and internally beaming with pride. He is really good - come on - he's six! The other parents' pride and passion, NOT so internal.
'Shoot the puck'
'Jason, what are you doing?!'
'Take the body'
'Pass it'
'Go - Go - Go Eric, SKATE!'
I don't understand this. First off, it's a try-out - NOT a game. and secondly, my goodness, they are 6, 7, and 8 year old children on the ice. Let them play and have fun.
So this was not the only disturbing situation of the evening...
When the parents weren't screaming at their children on the ice, they were discussing with the other parents- the teams, the coaches, the competitive talent pool, and the gossiping - geez, no one can ever tell me that men don't gossip.
I'm still slightly amazed at what transpired this evening. What does all of this do to our children? What does it teach them? I am all for competitive sports at most ages, but the competitiveness has to be to a point.
We all read about the crazy parents who beat each other up at baseball, hockey and football games. I'm curious to hear if anyone else out there has experienced this first hand. Let me know if I'm the only one who thinks these people are all crazy.
I'm still slightly amazed at what transpired this evening. What does all of this do to our children? What does it teach them? I am all for competitive sports at most ages, but the competitiveness has to be to a point.
We all read about the crazy parents who beat each other up at baseball, hockey and football games. I'm curious to hear if anyone else out there has experienced this first hand. Let me know if I'm the only one who thinks these people are all crazy.
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